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Stuck in the controversy

Carly Mul • February 23, 2025

One of the things that is so dear to me in the quilting world is the respect quilters have for each other. The quilt can be "ugly', full of "flaws", quilters will say nice things about it, because they know the effort the maker made or they know where they themselves at one point started. Or sometimes they say nothing, which can be a good thing too. What I have never heard any quilter say: "My eyes don't want to see what you made. My eyes can't handle it, it is that bad. Your quilt offends me."

In quilting we know there are different styles, different tastes, we love unique and one of a kind pieces and agreement is just as often absent as present. "Why did you choose that border color? To me, it doesn't do anything for the quilt." It could sound a little harsh, but quilters know how to hear it. I have heard plenty of those discussions. Or another person would  say: "Love the border!"  Again another would say: "Why did you even do a border?"

All good. All opinions that can lead to a discussion. Agreement is not required, we all have room. All of us. We want to have room, we need room. Without room, we can't create.


Without knowing  the details of their contract, I have to rely upon the publications on social media. SAQA (Studio Art Quilters Association, an organisation with a focus on art quilts) has their members well informed. AQS (American Quilter's Society)  is silent about the issue, despite multiple requests from quilters on their own social media. What happened is that an exhibition curated by SAQA was supposed to be shown at AQS shows, but AQS was not willing to show 2 (of the 39) quilts. You can look up the reason why,  but I am not so sure that reason is even relevant. AQS censored an exhibition that it had committed to  show and now only wanted to display those quilts that it liked (AQS had seen images of all the quilts with all the statements of the makers before signing the contract!).

An exhibition is a group of quilts that makes a unit. The total of the quilts makes the exhibition.  This is not about you or me entering a quilt that a show organiser can reject for any reason and without explanation, which is fully the right of the show organisation. With an exhibition there is no pick or choose and the contract didn't provide that exceptional option either. AQS could have said that it didn't want this SAQA exhibition, but it didn't:  the contract for a complete exhibition was signed, to be shown at all five ASQ shows.

If you have been to any quilt show, you must have seen quilts that you don't care for. Political quilts, gun violence quilts, religious quilts, trauma quilts, traditional quilts, super modern quilts, boring quilts, children's quilts, animal quilts, anything really. There is always something a viewer doesn't care for.  What doesn't appeal to one, touches another. When you don't care for a quilt, you walk on to the next one. Why waste time?  There is plenty more to see! If a show has hundreds of quilts, it is impossible to love them all! Agreement with the show acceptance is never a requirement. Even the best of show quilt or the people's choice award quilt is not unanimous. Nobody, nobody is expecting a show organiser to "agree" with every quilt.


After careful consideration, SAQA refused to be censored and decided to pull their entire exhibition "Color in context: Red" from all AQS shows.  This exhibition by the way, has been travelling around already. I saw it in Houston last October and I didn't hear anyone scream because 2 quilts were so upsetting. Nobody fainted either.

As a SAQA member, I applaud SAQA for doing this as there otherwise would never again be a SAQA exhibition. The integrity of the arts, the freedom of artists, is at stake. The freedom to express with fabrics what we want to express. To me it is a matter of respect for the quilt maker, for SAQA and quite frankly  also a matter of respect for the show attendants, who can very well make up for themselves what they like or not. There is no need to pull anything out. It is a quilt show, you show quilts! We are grownups. And without reading the statements, those quilts are nothing shocking to anyone. There are so many statements that are not according to how I see things. Fine! I can respect someone else's opinion. Especially in quilting.  That is our American tradition! Kids can see these quilts without any problem.

You can look up all the discussions going on and you may wonder why I am bringing it up in a blog. Well, it had/has a direct impact on me and put me on the spot.



This past weekend I have been teaching in Daytona, Fl and this is an AQS show, the  first one where the SAQA exhibition would have been shown.

Unless there is going to be a change in policy I will not teach with AQS again. I can't support the owners of this otherwise very nice show. I would have preferred to back out, but I had signed a contract.  I was committed and the contract didn't allow for an opportunity to back out because of a change of mind. Students had signed up, paid for kits..there was more at stake than my mind only.  I blame AQS for not fulfilling their contractual commitments with SAQA. I wanted to fulfill my obligations and I gave my students my very best and we had a great time in all classes. Daytona was a lovely show like every other quilt show. I enjoyed it and I am grateful for the opportunity. Meeting and teaching quilters with all kinds of different tastes and  opinions is exciting. We enjoyed sharing our common passion for fabric and color and a great day in class was had by all.


AQS is asking the teachers to heavily promote the shows on social media. I understand. It is a business model and this is what is expected from teachers by all shows. Yet, that same business model also requires one to read and answer comments. I find it bizarre AQS has the guts to ignore all those comments on its own social media. AQS simply doesn't respond.  You can't have it both ways. That by itself is negative advertising as you don't respect a follower, that same person you hope will attend a show and give you revenues. Is AQS hoping that this will blow away like so many things seem to blow away? They can learn from SAQA: without much drama and in carefully selected wording, all members were notified by email and/or social media. That's how you show respect to your members/readers.


One of the AQS owners tried to explain to the teachers in Daytona what happened. I couldn't follow or understand  (and I am trained as a lawyer) what he was trying to say, as his clouds of words never touched the point of censoring. It was clear that he hadn't changed his mind. "Everything has been blown out of proportions". I believe it and may even agree with it, but who started this?

I spoke to two other teachers about the controversy, but they could care less. "I just teach here, I know nothing about all that." Being or playing innocent has its advantages , I guess. It is not who I am and European history has taught me the danger of the silent approvers who facilitate by looking the other way. I don't make a living in teaching, so I have less at stake? Not so sure about that. I would have loved to teach for AQS more often and/or otherwise help them. I could have given lectures  or done anything else to promote the quilting business. That is my passion, ask my students. The entire quilting world has lost something.

Many students in Daytona were talking about it (and some hadn't heard it yet), many vendors were talking about it.....not talking about a problem hardly ever makes it go away.

To make it even more complicated:  Three weeks ago I got the notification that my quilt Bouquet was accepted in Paducah 2025, the flagship show of AQS. Before all this happened, I would have been excited. It is my first entrance at Paducah and it got in! I would have loved to see it hanging. I would have traveled to Paducah and enjoyed seeing my quilt. Now I have very mixed feelings about it.  Do I really want my quilt with this show? Do I want to be associated with AQS? No, I will definitely not submit any other quilt, but is pulling out the best way to protest?

It hurts me as someone who has found so much joy at quilt shows for so many years, to even think this way. What is happening,  America?  What's going on with the American Quilter's Society?? Was it really necessary to make this stand and hurt so many, mostly female, quilters? Why didn't you look at the contract before you signed it and avoided this situation that is a loss for everyone. What did you gain with your censoring? What kind of business decision is this to offend your clients! Members are protesting, not signing up for shows, not renewing memberships... all for two quilts that would not have been a concern for 99.9% of the show attendants.  AQS blew it out of proportion. What did AQS gain with this behavior?

After consulting friends whose opinions I value, I came, with a heavy mind, to the conclusion that I would withdraw my quilt. Nobody will miss my little quilt, I understand, but it is a matter of principle.  If I and others who got accepted, will not make a stand, AQS will think it can walk away with this mentality. Next time they pull out even more quilts or demand that they all have to have blue borders or so;) I think all their shows need to get boycotted until they take the quilt maker, the organisations that support quilting and the attendants more seriously. AQS has room to apologize. We all make mistakes and need second chances. We all want the quilting world to thrive, but thriving is not possible when you cut quilters off and reduce the room for art. Censoring art is a no, period! I hope that AQS will reconsider their position soon, but until then, please consider not supporting this organisation with your membership, your quilt, or attendance. Don't go to Branson, Paducah, Lancaster, Grand Rapids.  Don't take the AQS cruise. Ask the sponsors to reconsider their sponsoring. For sponsors it is a terrible conflicting situation as well, that I don't wish for any company having to deal with. AQS put its own sponsors into this storm. Never considered their business interests by stirring the censoring pot. Never considered teachers' interests, attendants'. Only looked at its own mindset and enforced this mind upon everyone else. It is so, so, so  against the long American quilting tradition!

Save your money for other shows where quilting is free! Money is unfortunately very often the way to talk. In that respect I appreciate all the people who signed up as members for SAQA.


To be as graceful as I could, I didn't mention anywhere on social media that my quilt got in before this blog. I didn't respond to any publications as I didn't want to frustrate the classes in Daytona in any way or form.  Now that my classes are done and I no longer have any commitments with AQS I can share my thoughts.

Next weekend, the Mid Atlantic Quilt show is coming up in Hampton VA. The SAQA exhibition will be there in full glory. I am excited and proud to teach there as well!


Please AQS. Deal with it. Apologize to the quilting community and correct. 



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